大家有過不被主管信任的感覺嗎?該怎麼辦? - 工程師
By Ingrid
at 2019-09-28T02:14
at 2019-09-28T02:14
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工作上我想要專業上有成長、有成就感、能夠得到主管的信任。
但很常一段時間除了工作上沒有成就感、專業度沒有與日俱增之外、感覺主管對我也不是
很信任,尤其是最近這種感覺越來越強烈。常常我講完一些事他就會打槍(或是說好聽點
是補充)或是再問資深的人,而且從眼神停留在我身上的秒數就可以知道他不信任我或是
臉部表情;主管曾說他會看回答的態度肯定與否來決定相不相信他,我自己是很不會用淺
白的話來解釋專業上比較複雜的東西而且記憶力不是很好,常常一個禮拜前的東西我就忘
了一部分或是我認為很簡單的東西就不會特別去記,所以回答起來就2266;我常常檢討自
己希望一次比一次好,但,檢討自己、改善然後又被打槍,每天工作沒什麼成就感然後主
管又不太信任我,就這樣無窮迴圈,自信心都快被消磨光了,好久沒有很開心的笑。
這種感覺很像棒球場上總教練不相信球員那樣,重要時刻不會想到他、當敗戰投手、也可
有可無。
我有想過換個環境但又覺得外面主管也是有這樣的話怎辦,或許這是老天要我改進缺點的
時候,只是我越來越不開心了,怎麼辦?
--
但很常一段時間除了工作上沒有成就感、專業度沒有與日俱增之外、感覺主管對我也不是
很信任,尤其是最近這種感覺越來越強烈。常常我講完一些事他就會打槍(或是說好聽點
是補充)或是再問資深的人,而且從眼神停留在我身上的秒數就可以知道他不信任我或是
臉部表情;主管曾說他會看回答的態度肯定與否來決定相不相信他,我自己是很不會用淺
白的話來解釋專業上比較複雜的東西而且記憶力不是很好,常常一個禮拜前的東西我就忘
了一部分或是我認為很簡單的東西就不會特別去記,所以回答起來就2266;我常常檢討自
己希望一次比一次好,但,檢討自己、改善然後又被打槍,每天工作沒什麼成就感然後主
管又不太信任我,就這樣無窮迴圈,自信心都快被消磨光了,好久沒有很開心的笑。
這種感覺很像棒球場上總教練不相信球員那樣,重要時刻不會想到他、當敗戰投手、也可
有可無。
我有想過換個環境但又覺得外面主管也是有這樣的話怎辦,或許這是老天要我改進缺點的
時候,只是我越來越不開心了,怎麼辦?
--
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