有人是做好了單身的心理準備嗎? - 大陸工作

By Tom
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其實現在社會單身沒什麼了,就像離過婚一樣,
只是自己的原生家庭能不能接受,當然也有可能北部跟南部有些不同,
很慶幸我有一對開明的父母,對於孩子們結不結婚、什麼時候結婚並不強求,
或許因為我是女孩子的關係,沒有像男生一樣傳宗接代的壓力,
所以在我22歲時跟我媽說我可能會不婚或晚婚,他並沒有反對,
我一直覺得”年紀到了”不管旁邊的另一半適不適合結婚,
就這樣結下去後不一定幸福,若沒有遇到一個對的人,
結婚反而是拖累了自己,有些人真的不適合結婚,
結了婚就有責任,少了自由,忠誠是先決條件,
這不是人人都可以接受的,選擇一個不對的人結婚,
還不如一個人過的好就好,現代的女生大多有一定的經濟能力,
早已過了結婚是找長期飯票的年代,若遇到一個對的人我也會結,
但沒遇到,單身很好!
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只是自己的原生家庭能不能接受,當然也有可能北部跟南部有些不同,
很慶幸我有一對開明的父母,對於孩子們結不結婚、什麼時候結婚並不強求,
或許因為我是女孩子的關係,沒有像男生一樣傳宗接代的壓力,
所以在我22歲時跟我媽說我可能會不婚或晚婚,他並沒有反對,
我一直覺得”年紀到了”不管旁邊的另一半適不適合結婚,
就這樣結下去後不一定幸福,若沒有遇到一個對的人,
結婚反而是拖累了自己,有些人真的不適合結婚,
結了婚就有責任,少了自由,忠誠是先決條件,
這不是人人都可以接受的,選擇一個不對的人結婚,
還不如一個人過的好就好,現代的女生大多有一定的經濟能力,
早已過了結婚是找長期飯票的年代,若遇到一個對的人我也會結,
但沒遇到,單身很好!
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