確定外派大陸後的複雜心情 - 大陸工作

By Quintina
at 2020-09-18T11:53
at 2020-09-18T11:53
Table of Contents
小弟目前任職中南部的空污大廠
當初面試時被詢問是否有外派意願
當時沒想這麼多又看到起薪是留在台灣的兩倍就一口答應了
現在人也進公司了 外派流程和台胞證什麼的都在跑了
心中卻有一種忐忑不安的心情
第一個想到的是家人
來中南部後 台北老家只剩阿嬤一個人住
一起生活了20年總是放不下心 雖然阿嬤的年紀沒有到說會很快離開我
但是想到前幾天的新聞就很害怕
就算在南部還是有高鐵可以回家看看阿嬤 在大陸應該不是想回就回的
第二個是會害怕對岸的環境
這輩子還沒有出國過 這樣一次去就是兩個月才能回來
在中南部就會想家了 大陸又離家隔海好幾百公里
這個幾百公里的海峽真的讓我心生恐懼
請問各位前輩是否有過這種複雜的心情
請問該怎麼讓自己舒坦一點呢
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當初面試時被詢問是否有外派意願
當時沒想這麼多又看到起薪是留在台灣的兩倍就一口答應了
現在人也進公司了 外派流程和台胞證什麼的都在跑了
心中卻有一種忐忑不安的心情
第一個想到的是家人
來中南部後 台北老家只剩阿嬤一個人住
一起生活了20年總是放不下心 雖然阿嬤的年紀沒有到說會很快離開我
但是想到前幾天的新聞就很害怕
就算在南部還是有高鐵可以回家看看阿嬤 在大陸應該不是想回就回的
第二個是會害怕對岸的環境
這輩子還沒有出國過 這樣一次去就是兩個月才能回來
在中南部就會想家了 大陸又離家隔海好幾百公里
這個幾百公里的海峽真的讓我心生恐懼
請問各位前輩是否有過這種複雜的心情
請問該怎麼讓自己舒坦一點呢
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的事。對岸也有很多不同於台灣的東西可以觀看體驗。保持
開放的心態,日子不會太難過的。加油

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,誰都很難幫的上忙。第三,大多數的人會去影響到工作,基
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生活、甚至個人習慣...全都要斷捨離,你只能努力工作融
入並且盡量還原成原來生活的節奏

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