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By Lydia
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當不利輿論導向某一方 特別是顯眼爆發不滿率先動作者
這時很容易忽視掉原先起始一方才是疏失的開端
例:打人的人通常會被指責 卻忽視被打的人卻可能是發難開始
乍看不起眼的語氣 手勢 眼神 長久下來 最後一根稻草引起對方爆發出手
之後被打者 便可利用(打人就是不對)這點 建立群眾支持基礎 讓對方難以辯白
回最先原PO文章看事件
前面所敘述過程 : 沒有簽約 挑剔細節 溝通不良 拖延改期 打翻重做.....等等
多是每位SOHO都會遇到的事
但直到原PO冒出合作朋友寫信過去 才是最後一根稻草 引起對方爆點
最早使用 ( 威脅手段 ) 是接案原PO這方 不是案主!!!
與案主溝通的都是原PO 但突然接到對案主來說 是第三者的人一封指責信
這感覺從案主角度看 等於是原PO找個外人去喬事情一樣 案主當然不爽
而其中有句
: 老實說我方大可就此不做
這其實就是種威脅!!
雖然兩方互有不滿 但都合作了段時間
說這句話 卻像是可以突然撒手不管的軟性恐嚇 對案主來講就是一種緊急變調
接案有爭執是常事 但用:[你這樣 我可以不作唷~] 這樣語意 又是第三者的發言
怎看都跟黑道談判手法如出一轍 也難怪案主採更猛烈(以黑制黑)反制
這事件起始 真的是原PO處事疏忽與手法瑕疵為因 不能單怪對方似個惡霸公司
以上 請眾位與原PO作經驗參考深思
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這時很容易忽視掉原先起始一方才是疏失的開端
例:打人的人通常會被指責 卻忽視被打的人卻可能是發難開始
乍看不起眼的語氣 手勢 眼神 長久下來 最後一根稻草引起對方爆發出手
之後被打者 便可利用(打人就是不對)這點 建立群眾支持基礎 讓對方難以辯白
回最先原PO文章看事件
前面所敘述過程 : 沒有簽約 挑剔細節 溝通不良 拖延改期 打翻重做.....等等
多是每位SOHO都會遇到的事
但直到原PO冒出合作朋友寫信過去 才是最後一根稻草 引起對方爆點
最早使用 ( 威脅手段 ) 是接案原PO這方 不是案主!!!
與案主溝通的都是原PO 但突然接到對案主來說 是第三者的人一封指責信
這感覺從案主角度看 等於是原PO找個外人去喬事情一樣 案主當然不爽
而其中有句
: 老實說我方大可就此不做
這其實就是種威脅!!
雖然兩方互有不滿 但都合作了段時間
說這句話 卻像是可以突然撒手不管的軟性恐嚇 對案主來講就是一種緊急變調
接案有爭執是常事 但用:[你這樣 我可以不作唷~] 這樣語意 又是第三者的發言
怎看都跟黑道談判手法如出一轍 也難怪案主採更猛烈(以黑制黑)反制
這事件起始 真的是原PO處事疏忽與手法瑕疵為因 不能單怪對方似個惡霸公司
以上 請眾位與原PO作經驗參考深思
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