Re: 決定回台灣的時機 - 薪水

By James
at 2016-04-25T11:47
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事實上美國之所以吸引人的地方,就是不需要花很多投資在教育上就能夠得到較高的回報
當護士,水電工,怪手,吊車司機,還有很多只有associate degree或certificate
做個三五年吧,要拿到六~八萬不難
大家要注意喔,這些人20歲就出社會了,沒有念完學士喔
另外一個好就是愛住大房子的人就要在美國了
台灣房價太貴了,若是喜歡大房子,美國多的地方是那種一個房子六個房間二十萬的地方
不是那種荒郊野外喔,一些大城市的郊區就有
有大院子,養動物種花草
假日也能拖個船拖個帳篷車出去大自然天人合一
要進大城市裡面看熱鬧也可以
這些選擇台灣就少多了
另外一個更重要的是孩子的教育
你回台灣之後不免俗的最後給孩子補習家教,最後大學畢業是不是又要送出國
直接在美國生活孩子也在這長大,教育的成本其實很低
大學它們自己去貸款就好了,不要老是用中國人思維
美國父母有錢也是要小孩去背貸款,自己獨立
不要看到幾個少數白人有錢人也給小孩付學費的就來噴了
美國真的是很鼓勵小孩獨立的
講到醫療吧,大家都在那邊說甚麼台灣健保
其實真的在美國有在上班的人就知道,公司幫付保險
自己一個月也才付幾十塊,去看病的co-pay也不高
真的生很重的病也是付個deductible就好了,頂多兩三千吧
以美國的收入來說,這又是比台灣貴到哪裡去了
當然會想海歸大多跟=原生家庭感情價值有關
美國很大,不是只有Bay Area和各大都市
話說在美國立足後父母比較不願意也過來移民的好像真的是台灣人居多
對岸父母真的是超愛過來,夫妻兩邊的父母搶著過來帶孩子,也許是一胎化的原因
其他國家的例如韓國越南,拉丁美洲就不要講了
子女能拿公民的話搶著要辦要過來
我感覺台灣人尤其父母那輩真的比其他國家保守太多了
我自己分析的原因是亞洲各國窮的國家例如東南亞,想來美國那是可以想像
先進國家例如日韓,可能因為有美軍駐軍還有其實比台灣更西化原因,並不保守
對岸可能也是封閉太久了吧,還有一胎化,父母權威保守性不高
台灣真的是一個在歷史的洪流中很奇特的地方
上一代對於子女的依存性歸根依存性相當的高
導致很多人即使在美國已經是做得很成功,國內叫要回來的聲音一直相當大
※ 引述《miluco (I'm feeling lucky)》之銘言:
: 我覺得很多沒有出過國的人,一看到海歸的人
: 心裡就有一些想法,有的人是覺得你在國外留學然後回台灣
: 表示你是魯蛇,在國外找不到工作才回台灣
: 但事實上,留學生回台灣的因素千百種,就算找不到工作而回台灣
: 也不代表是魯蛇,因為景氣、科系、h1抽籤沒抽到
: 有太多太多的因素,怎能一概而論
: 有的人則是覺得,阿你幹嗎回來? 旅外就是神
: 國外薪水就是高,殊不知很多人在國外賺的薪水扣除生活費
: 能存下來的錢其實比在台灣工作能存下來的錢沒有多多少
: 畢竟不是每個人都念CS,對吧?
: 而沒有真正離鄉背井過,誰能真的體會什麼叫做鄉愁?
: 近幾年看好多身邊的朋友來來去去,有好多人都是因為父母親生病
: 過世,所以不得不放下美國的工作,舉家回台
: 有人則是真的就像失根的蘭花,不管在美國工作居住多久
: 依舊沒有真正的歸屬感
: 美國職場的確比較沒有像亞洲社會這樣的上下地位之分
: 但是小團體,派系的鬥爭依舊存在,種族歧視的問題也是有的
: 如果你只是想餬口飯吃,每天生活在自己的小確幸並不難
: 但難的就在於你要升職,難在你要融入美國同事朋友之間
: 工程師要升職可能還比較容易一些
: 有些職業英文不好,要升職就有一定的難度,但即便是工程師
: 要能升到VP,升到g社 L5以上,也都有一定的難度
: 每個人選擇在哪裡工作生活的原因不同,台灣總還是有台灣好的地方
: 如果我今天從小就不是出生在台灣,我可能也不會覺得台灣真的有哪裡很好
: 但因為土生土長台灣人,對這塊土地會有一些割捨不掉的情感
: 不管這些情感是人,還是夜市賣的鹹酥雞,抑或是從小跟著長大的回憶
: 對我來說,在美國也差不多過了快一半的人生
: 美國一樣是另一個家鄉,除了比較高的薪資,比較好的生活環境
: 一樣有很多回憶跟情感
: 我不否認跟很多人一樣,離鄉背井的原因主要還是為了錢
: 但如果今天台灣的父母親生重病了,我想我還是沒辦法放著不管
: 總不能父母親生病,還用視訊照顧吧? 就算有兄弟姊妹在台灣幫忙照顧
: 那也不是他們該概括承受的所有責任.
: 當然,有人會說,這種觀念太八股了一點,我自己並不希望我的下一代
: 需要負擔照顧我老年的責任,我希望可以跟另一半去住老人院就好了
: 但我們上一代的長輩我想很多人或多或少,還是對我們這一代人有所期待
: 期待著遠在異鄉的那個孩子可以有空回家看看父母
: 期待生病時有人可以帶他們去看醫生,諸如此類的
: 還是要強調一下,這篇沒有勸退的意思,其實住新加坡離台灣很近
: 不像美國台灣搭飛機還得跨換日線,趁年輕多存點錢是好事
: 但錢也不見得就是萬能,賈伯斯再有錢,也敵不過病魔早逝
: 回台灣也許薪水真的不如新加坡好,但是有很多是錢沒辦法取代的
: 最近看了一篇文章
: 在非洲28年「永遠夠用」的無薪生活-西非媽媽蕭碧連
: http://goo.gl/xIRxDA
: 很多從事神職的人物慾都很低
: 而我們普羅大眾凡夫俗子,多半都擺脫不了物慾
: 被房子車子好學區好工作富裕生活綁住了手腳
: 錢要多少才夠用,沒有統一標準答案
: 只有你才知道自己心裡面的那個天平,哪一邊比較重
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