內心容易受傷的新人 - 工程師

By William
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板上的各位上大家好
最近在工作上,有件事一直困擾著我
本部門前一陣子來了位新人,學歷不錯,學習很認真,也很努力做好上司交待的事
但這個新同事,有一個點,讓我覺得很麻煩
說是玻璃心又不至於,至少面對他說他哪邊需要改善,他是能接受的
應該說是內心反應敏感,就用 內心纖細 來形容吧
因為他非常無法接受別說話的方式比較大聲
有些同事說話大聲,是個性急,或是急著強調某件事/某個東西
只要與這位新同事講話,音量稍大,他就會冷冰冰地說:你講話這麼大聲是要吵架嗎??
感覺就像是跟女朋友吵架一樣,他不在乎你說了什麼,他只在乎你的講話的語氣/態度
如果是平順的語氣,他都很ok。但在工作上,有時候事態緊急,沒那麼多時間去考慮
別人的心情。難免講話急促了一些 (我也是屬於這類的人)
有好幾次想跟他吵,但因為事情又多又急,我都把脾氣強壓下來。
請問像這樣的同事,你們覺得如何相處比較好??
畢竟同一個project,一定會見面,關係弄好總是好事
PS.目前我想不出好方法之前,我都盡量不跟他對話,用mail的方式跟他連絡,不跟他面對面
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最近在工作上,有件事一直困擾著我
本部門前一陣子來了位新人,學歷不錯,學習很認真,也很努力做好上司交待的事
但這個新同事,有一個點,讓我覺得很麻煩
說是玻璃心又不至於,至少面對他說他哪邊需要改善,他是能接受的
應該說是內心反應敏感,就用 內心纖細 來形容吧
因為他非常無法接受別說話的方式比較大聲
有些同事說話大聲,是個性急,或是急著強調某件事/某個東西
只要與這位新同事講話,音量稍大,他就會冷冰冰地說:你講話這麼大聲是要吵架嗎??
感覺就像是跟女朋友吵架一樣,他不在乎你說了什麼,他只在乎你的講話的語氣/態度
如果是平順的語氣,他都很ok。但在工作上,有時候事態緊急,沒那麼多時間去考慮
別人的心情。難免講話急促了一些 (我也是屬於這類的人)
有好幾次想跟他吵,但因為事情又多又急,我都把脾氣強壓下來。
請問像這樣的同事,你們覺得如何相處比較好??
畢竟同一個project,一定會見面,關係弄好總是好事
PS.目前我想不出好方法之前,我都盡量不跟他對話,用mail的方式跟他連絡,不跟他面對面
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