竹科太太求職受挫 10年工程師丈夫求救「 - 工程師
By Linda
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竹科太太求職受挫 10年工程師丈夫求救「怕妻想讓我養她」
https://udn.com/news/story/7272/6237161
竹科工程師已經成為人人稱羨的職業,「竹科太太」更變成一種社會對工程師配偶的特殊標籤,甚至互相攀比、炫富都屢見不鮮,不過就有工程師在Dcard求助,指自己的太太到新竹求職受挫,卻又不希望另一半在家當全職太太,詢問網友意見,沒想到網友一面倒勸離婚,更有女網友點出關鍵。
這名竹科工程師稱自己已在科技業任職近10年,擔任晶片研發工作,沒想到幾年前與太太結婚後,讓原本從事服務業的太太從台北搬到新竹生活、求職,太太卻屢屢遭到職場霸凌,讓這名工程師無奈表示「長期處在事情都做不完了,怎麼還會有時間搞來搞去的這種想法,無法理解我老婆的遭遇」,更認為太太只是不想工作「想讓我養她」。
工程師表示,太太因為學歷不高,只有五專畢業,主要是找辦公室助理工作,但都會抱怨職場環境總有人愛針對,以致下班回家還要聽太太抱怨、散播負能量,更稱自己的太太「我老婆不是讀書的料,吸收力學習力都很差」難讓她唸書、補學歷。
這名工程師因此發文詢問網友意見「剩下也只能讓老婆在家當全職太太一途了嗎?但我還是比較希望老婆有自己的工作有自己的生活圈。」
不過許多男網友卻認為,這只是工程師厭倦另一半的藉口,還勸沒有生孩子前趕快離婚,更有男網友不解「為什麼女生要放棄原本在台北的生活跑來新竹,因為男生高薪?」還有網友更嘲「結婚靠的就是衝動,但是你太衝動了」。
有女網友就點出關鍵,認為竹科太太來到新竹這樣高度競爭的環境,不僅互相比較彼此學歷,更相互較勁丈夫年收入,有小孩的還要比較誰讓孩子上更多才藝課,稍自卑的竹科太太很容易就被打垮精神,甚至在職場也不自信。
也有女網友表示「工程師好像都喜歡很笨的人」引來其他女網友附和認為是因為「比較好騙到+享受被崇拜」,還有網友建議發文的工程師應該要帶太太2人一起去看醫生「也許有精神病症狀干擾,不然之後互相影響,兩個會一起發病」。
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