被幹飛都怎麼調適心態 - 工程師

Bennie avatar
By Bennie
at 2023-04-15T00:31

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※ 引述《GanGaMan (吉他吉他老伯)》之銘言：
: 這種時候被幹飛也不見得是自己很爛
: 只需要記取教訓 再改進就好了
: 但被幹的當下該如何調適
: 避免覺得自己一文不值 / 完全不適合這份工作呢？
: 另一方面
: 被幹到什麼地步才需要認清自己可能真的不適合呢？

你就想像你的工作是演員，而不是工程師
演員就是給你什麼劇本，你就照劇本演出
偶爾想到比較好的表演方法，
記得跟導演，也就是你的老闆討論
等到你大牌的時候，自然每個人都看你表演

還是小咖的時候
劇情需要把你罵個狗血淋頭，你就被他罵
劇情需要你演反派角色你就去演
劇情需要你當英雄就跳出來當

除非他心理有問題
不然應該駡完你就放你回家，變成陌生人

所以你也一樣，離開公司就不要入戲太深
回家就是領薪水放空看劇打電動照顧家人
千萬不要往心裡去喔

祝你早日拿到奧斯卡獎
https://i.imgur.com/bTEe0ng.jpg



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All Comments

Elizabeth avatar
By Elizabeth
at 2023-04-17T17:13
笑死
Belly avatar
By Belly
at 2023-04-20T09:55
真的往心裡去，就是憂鬱躁鬱一起來了
Callum avatar
By Callum
at 2023-04-23T02:37
很有心得
Puput avatar
By Puput
at 2023-04-22T05:41
好
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By Suhail Hany
at 2023-04-24T22:22
這篇優質文我要存檔列印框起來
Yedda avatar
By Yedda
at 2023-04-22T05:41
好欸
Mary avatar
By Mary
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推
Mary avatar
By Mary
at 2023-04-22T05:41
真的不用往心裡去，主管也是在演戲啦，出公司拿掉
狗牌他也奈何不了你
Irma avatar
By Irma
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推
John avatar
By John
at 2023-04-22T05:41
工作就像在演戲，演得好，升得快。
Sandy avatar
By Sandy
at 2023-04-24T22:22
是，入戲太深大有人在
Wallis avatar
By Wallis
at 2023-04-22T05:41
好方法欸
Lucy avatar
By Lucy
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推
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By Rae
at 2023-04-22T05:41
越罵越升
Jacky avatar
By Jacky
at 2023-04-24T22:22
優質
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By Ursula
at 2023-04-22T05:41
回家罵老婆打小孩
Lucy avatar
By Lucy
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推
Sarah avatar
By Sarah
at 2023-04-22T05:41
推
Eden avatar
By Eden
at 2023-04-24T22:22
本日最優質文 上班族就該有這種心態
Eartha avatar
By Eartha
at 2023-04-22T05:41
在公司罵到面紅耳赤，下班後四目相望不認識
James avatar
By James
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推，有時候就是這樣
Liam avatar
By Liam
at 2023-04-22T05:41
高手 推一個
Emma avatar
By Emma
at 2023-04-24T22:22
你真棒
Dinah avatar
By Dinah
at 2023-04-22T05:41
阿發岳父：我親眼看到他進妓院！！！
Frederic avatar
By Frederic
at 2023-04-24T22:22
很精確！
Callum avatar
By Callum
at 2023-04-22T05:41
公司隔壁部門新的大主管，在公司待30年了，沒什麼專
業，唯一一點就是捱得住罵，罵久了就輪到他了
Hedy avatar
By Hedy
at 2023-04-24T22:22
感謝分享
Oliver avatar
By Oliver
at 2023-04-22T05:41
大哥說的是 我還在努力學習QQ
Rebecca avatar
By Rebecca
at 2023-04-24T22:22
對不起按錯了 補
Jacob avatar
By Jacob
at 2023-04-22T05:41
感謝分享
Hazel avatar
By Hazel
at 2023-04-24T22:22
確實，認同
Damian avatar
By Damian
at 2023-04-22T05:41
新人還在努力學習不要入戲太深QQ
Catherine avatar
By Catherine
at 2023-04-24T22:22
我要把一些話當座右銘
Belly avatar
By Belly
at 2023-04-22T05:41
當過一年義務役預官的話，板上講的這些職場壓力在我
看來都不算壓力，輕鬆寫意
Jake avatar
By Jake
at 2023-04-24T22:22
24/7在營區，被罵完後還要跟長官同桌吃晚飯時還可以
繼續聊八卦，彷彿剛才被罵的事都不存在一樣
Blanche avatar
By Blanche
at 2023-04-22T05:41
誠懇推，膝蓋獻上
Victoria avatar
By Victoria
at 2023-04-24T22:22
認同
Edith avatar
By Edith
at 2023-04-22T05:41
這篇經典
Necoo avatar
By Necoo
at 2023-04-24T22:22
笑死推
Brianna avatar
By Brianna
at 2023-04-22T05:41
推，跟立委一樣，早上噴口水晚上喝紅酒
Erin avatar
By Erin
at 2023-04-24T22:22
XDDD
David avatar
By David
at 2023-04-22T05:41
推
Tracy avatar
By Tracy
at 2023-04-24T22:22
幹 你專業
Ida avatar
By Ida
at 2023-04-22T05:41
人生就是一齣戲
William avatar
By William
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推 真的不要入戲太深
Barb Cronin avatar
By Barb Cronin
at 2023-04-22T05:41
職場就是要演戲，大推！可惜我還不成氣候，還沒成
為戲精
Audriana avatar
By Audriana
at 2023-04-24T22:22
優質好文
Una avatar
By Una
at 2023-04-22T05:41
認同，入戲太深只會生病
Freda avatar
By Freda
at 2023-04-24T22:22
優質
Robert avatar
By Robert
at 2023-04-22T05:41
https://i.imgur.com/SjRbgW3.jpg
Edwina avatar
By Edwina
at 2023-04-24T22:22
真的別太入戲，反正到處都演員
Kumar avatar
By Kumar
at 2023-04-22T05:41
好觀念 這是我當預官悟出的道理
Yuri avatar
By Yuri
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推 心態正確
Caroline avatar
By Caroline
at 2023-04-22T05:41
讚
Franklin avatar
By Franklin
at 2023-04-24T22:22
好有道理XDX
Skylar DavisLinda avatar
By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2023-04-22T05:41
真的精闢
Genevieve avatar
By Genevieve
at 2023-04-24T22:22
優質文!
Regina avatar
By Regina
at 2023-04-22T05:41
被大咖罵多了會變落水狗 以後各單位不配合 難有績效
Hazel avatar
By Hazel
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推，真的演完準時下班最重要
Hazel avatar
By Hazel
at 2023-04-22T05:41
勵志～幽默又不失實用
Rebecca avatar
By Rebecca
at 2023-04-24T22:22
雀食
Yuri avatar
By Yuri
at 2023-04-22T05:41
進入我不是我的境界
Regina avatar
By Regina
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推 我也還在學習
Hardy avatar
By Hardy
at 2023-04-22T05:41
打狗看主人 被狗幹表示後台不挺了 工時薪資難保障
Blanche avatar
By Blanche
at 2023-04-24T22:22
真的不要往心裡去 生病沒必要
Ingrid avatar
By Ingrid
at 2023-04-22T05:41
都說工程師是科技業 其實應該是服務業
Todd Johnson avatar
By Todd Johnson
at 2023-04-24T22:22
就是服務公司或同仁而已
Ethan avatar
By Ethan
at 2023-04-22T05:41
這種單位還待就是犯賤，主管忘記吃藥而已還真催眠自
己是演員
Margaret avatar
By Margaret
at 2023-04-24T22:22
台劇特色就是劇情再爛都有婆婆媽媽看，成本低廉還
是收得到錢 散戶會上車 臨演會怎麼做大家好像都知
道~XD
Rosalind avatar
By Rosalind
at 2023-04-22T05:41
哥說的是
Zora avatar
By Zora
at 2023-04-24T22:22
這篇真的推
Annie avatar
By Annie
at 2023-04-22T05:41
公私分明，人人都可以是影帝影后
Joe avatar
By Joe
at 2023-04-24T22:22
演員演完有錢 被罵完是資遣滾蛋耶 最好一樣
Rosalind avatar
By Rosalind
at 2023-04-22T05:41
大部分的公司都是這鳥樣，遇到問題先罵人，而不是想
解決方法、如何預防。
Vanessa avatar
By Vanessa
at 2023-04-24T22:22
罵完人，問題還在，下次照樣犯錯。
Quanna avatar
By Quanna
at 2023-04-22T05:41
優文!
Anonymous avatar
By Anonymous
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推 年度好文
Callum avatar
By Callum
at 2023-04-22T05:41
唉呀，這文早十年寫出來可以救更多人
Barb Cronin avatar
By Barb Cronin
at 2023-04-24T22:22
優質
Erin avatar
By Erin
at 2023-04-22T05:41
學廢了
Mary avatar
By Mary
at 2023-04-24T22:22
沒錯，談談紓解就好，下週再來過
Emma avatar
By Emma
at 2023-04-22T05:41
莫名有道理w
Yedda avatar
By Yedda
at 2023-04-24T22:22
不推不行 XDDD
Rachel avatar
By Rachel
at 2023-04-22T05:41
乾 真的就是這樣欸
Damian avatar
By Damian
at 2023-04-24T22:22
給推
Ina avatar
By Ina
at 2023-04-22T05:41
中肯，每個人都是用自己的角度看事情，調適很重要
Charlie avatar
By Charlie
at 2023-04-24T22:22
尊嚴值也是會消耗光的,不只准時下班跟薪水到帳KPI
大多數人很捍衛自己的面子啦,要錢要爽要面子通通要
Mary avatar
By Mary
at 2023-04-22T05:41
加映書名《今天的人設是專業上班族：職場如劇場，
每天演技進步1%，靈肉分離的快樂就會滿出來》
Annie avatar
By Annie
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推
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By Ophelia
at 2023-04-22T05:41
http://i.imgur.com/gzTrZTj.jpg
David avatar
By David
at 2023-04-24T22:22
Fake it till you make it.
Odelette avatar
By Odelette
at 2023-04-22T05:41
抹布優文!!
Olive avatar
By Olive
at 2023-04-24T22:22
這篇一定要M
Kama avatar
By Kama
at 2023-04-22T05:41
推
Jacky avatar
By Jacky
at 2023-04-24T22:22
除了技術和職涯討論 真開心還有這種心態調適的文章
：）
Bennie avatar
By Bennie
at 2023-04-22T05:41
Google也是這樣?
Ophelia avatar
By Ophelia
at 2023-04-24T22:22
謝謝指點
Selena avatar
By Selena
at 2023-04-22T05:41
好好笑，好像真的是這樣XDD
Genevieve avatar
By Genevieve
at 2023-04-24T22:22
被罵之後不會有事才能這樣,但邊緣人被洗臉就進入PIP
Olivia avatar
By Olivia
at 2023-04-22T05:41
Best manger!
Sandy avatar
By Sandy
at 2023-04-24T22:22
看戲的是傻子, 演戲的是瘋子
Quanna avatar
By Quanna
at 2023-04-22T05:41
演不好是因為你不夠瘋. 看不下去是因為不夠傻
夠瘋才演得下去, 裝傻才看得下去
Isla avatar
By Isla
at 2023-04-24T22:22
有時候自己都知在胡說八道,偏偏又沒辦法很認真演Y
通常演得好,看戲的也會配合裝傻讓你把戲演完
Yuri avatar
By Yuri
at 2023-04-22T05:41
還在修行
Franklin avatar
By Franklin
at 2023-04-24T22:22
優質
Callum avatar
By Callum
at 2023-04-22T05:41
優質文
Damian avatar
By Damian
at 2023-04-24T22:22
那有沒有金靴獎 最會踢皮球
Bennie avatar
By Bennie
at 2023-04-22T05:41
優文 我記下來了
Caroline avatar
By Caroline
at 2023-04-24T22:22
今天把你罵得狗血淋頭 等事情過去照樣跟你打哈哈
Belly avatar
By Belly
at 2023-04-22T05:41
優文推推
Rebecca avatar
By Rebecca
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推
Enid avatar
By Enid
at 2023-04-22T05:41
超優文
Ina avatar
By Ina
at 2023-04-24T22:22
中肯
Rebecca avatar
By Rebecca
at 2023-04-22T05:41
金玉良言XD，不要入戲太深，受教了
Quintina avatar
By Quintina
at 2023-04-24T22:22
簡單中肯，演戲混口飯吃而已，太認真那是你的不對
Isabella avatar
By Isabella
at 2023-04-22T05:41
推不要入戲太深 大家是在合演一齣戲 人生如戲
Odelette avatar
By Odelette
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推 優文
Todd Johnson avatar
By Todd Johnson
at 2023-04-22T05:41
We
Connor avatar
By Connor
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推
William avatar
By William
at 2023-04-22T05:41
非常棒的方向，另一個問題是，又是誰扮演了在家的我
Charlotte avatar
By Charlotte
at 2023-04-24T22:22
確實
Leila avatar
By Leila
at 2023-04-22T05:41
工作不要太認真
Hedy avatar
By Hedy
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推！實用
Anonymous avatar
By Anonymous
at 2023-04-22T05:41
這一篇必須M起來
Jack avatar
By Jack
at 2023-04-24T22:22
工作5年後的領悟跟這篇一模一樣 某個時間瞬間開竅
Mia avatar
By Mia
at 2023-04-22T05:41
該自己做的事就盡全力做 其他就照劇本演
Mason avatar
By Mason
at 2023-04-24T22:22
心態真的會好很多
Quanna avatar
By Quanna
at 2023-04-22T05:41
777
Noah avatar
By Noah
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推
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By Barb Cronin
at 2023-04-22T05:41
滿中肯的！上班如演戲...
Dinah avatar
By Dinah
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推
Puput avatar
By Puput
at 2023-04-22T05:41
這篇正解了，再講都是多
Christine avatar
By Christine
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推 離開了公司 那些人就是路人而已
Brianna avatar
By Brianna
at 2023-04-22T05:41
推
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By Olivia
at 2023-04-24T22:22
認同請分享
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By Doris
at 2023-04-22T05:41
推
Emma avatar
By Emma
at 2023-04-24T22:22
恭喜，大家的推文把這篇幹爆了
Catherine avatar
By Catherine
at 2023-04-22T05:41
你是懂飛的人
Bethany avatar
By Bethany
at 2023-04-24T22:22
大推
Regina avatar
By Regina
at 2023-04-22T05:41
最慘是下班還要演 折騰不止
Tracy avatar
By Tracy
at 2023-04-24T22:22
你可以參考半澤
Olive avatar
By Olive
at 2023-04-22T05:41
這篇優質
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By Adele
at 2023-04-24T22:22
Ida avatar
By Ida
at 2023-04-22T05:41
含淚推
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By Heather
at 2023-04-24T22:22
剛演完下班
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By Irma
at 2023-04-22T05:41
推
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By Puput
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推
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By Sierra Rose
at 2023-04-22T05:41
謝謝你
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By Dora
at 2023-04-24T22:22
推
Una avatar
By Una
at 2023-04-22T05:41
就跟當兵一樣 別放心裡
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By Skylar Davis
at 2023-04-24T22:22
優文推
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By Madame
at 2023-04-22T05:41
實用喔

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at 2023-04-14T22:38
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