被機關首長針對 - 離職

By Edith
at 2018-05-23T22:07
at 2018-05-23T22:07
Table of Contents
想請問各位先進是否有較好的應對方案
事主是我太太, 從家中及該單位發生一些變故之後以及新的機關首長到任之後
在業務方面常被民眾跟首長轟炸, 壓力一直無法緩解, 罹患憂鬱症
治療約1年後, 年初已康復
但最近又因為首長踩到她的底線, 情緒又大爆發
她終於做下決定七月前要離職(之前有勸過, 但她一直不甘心想再撐看看, 7年資歷)
離職書至首長那邊被退回, 被要求說明
去說明後又有爭執, 首長數落她業務承辦不力, 把一些不是她業務的事算在她身上
故意找碴說某業務執行率衝高(當初為該首長要求衝高執行率), 認為是造假
要求她把6xxx筆數據全部印出來(每筆為1個檔案)
另外又說她勾結廠商, 圖利廠商, 要把她抓去關, 說她留爛攤子
或是諸如"妳以前呆過什麼單位 妳這態度 他們把妳教的真好阿"不帶髒字的諷刺
今日大崩潰, 說她已有自殺的念頭, 明日要帶她去看精神科
但離她提的離職日期還有一個多月
她的休假及補休還非常多, 可以從6月初休到6月底離職還休不完
但猜測機關首長的個性, 更是會故意不准假(該單位業務量也很大)
我不曉得還有什麼辦法可以讓她先在家休息, 有家人陪伴, 避免情況更糟
目前我想到是精神科醫生的診斷, 看是否有到需在家休養的程度
或是找其他方式請病假, 拖到離職日
請問各位還有其他較好的建議嗎?
*依我太太所述, 該首長不太能接受不一樣的聲音, 該首長某些指令與行為有違法之虞
或違反程序, 我太太會提醒他不能這麼做, 但會被數落
或是被說叫妳辦就辦, 妳哪來那麼多意見, 可能是因為這樣越來越被針對
*該首長有找過一些人要接我太太的工作, 都被以離職/育嬰/商調等拒絕
被找的人跟我太太說的, 他們覺得我太太工作業務量太大, 做的好也一直被針對
但我太太考績又是甲等..
*我勸她大不了交接清單及財產轉移弄完直接就曠職, 身體健康重要
但她無法接受擺爛
--
事主是我太太, 從家中及該單位發生一些變故之後以及新的機關首長到任之後
在業務方面常被民眾跟首長轟炸, 壓力一直無法緩解, 罹患憂鬱症
治療約1年後, 年初已康復
但最近又因為首長踩到她的底線, 情緒又大爆發
她終於做下決定七月前要離職(之前有勸過, 但她一直不甘心想再撐看看, 7年資歷)
離職書至首長那邊被退回, 被要求說明
去說明後又有爭執, 首長數落她業務承辦不力, 把一些不是她業務的事算在她身上
故意找碴說某業務執行率衝高(當初為該首長要求衝高執行率), 認為是造假
要求她把6xxx筆數據全部印出來(每筆為1個檔案)
另外又說她勾結廠商, 圖利廠商, 要把她抓去關, 說她留爛攤子
或是諸如"妳以前呆過什麼單位 妳這態度 他們把妳教的真好阿"不帶髒字的諷刺
今日大崩潰, 說她已有自殺的念頭, 明日要帶她去看精神科
但離她提的離職日期還有一個多月
她的休假及補休還非常多, 可以從6月初休到6月底離職還休不完
但猜測機關首長的個性, 更是會故意不准假(該單位業務量也很大)
我不曉得還有什麼辦法可以讓她先在家休息, 有家人陪伴, 避免情況更糟
目前我想到是精神科醫生的診斷, 看是否有到需在家休養的程度
或是找其他方式請病假, 拖到離職日
請問各位還有其他較好的建議嗎?
*依我太太所述, 該首長不太能接受不一樣的聲音, 該首長某些指令與行為有違法之虞
或違反程序, 我太太會提醒他不能這麼做, 但會被數落
或是被說叫妳辦就辦, 妳哪來那麼多意見, 可能是因為這樣越來越被針對
*該首長有找過一些人要接我太太的工作, 都被以離職/育嬰/商調等拒絕
被找的人跟我太太說的, 他們覺得我太太工作業務量太大, 做的好也一直被針對
但我太太考績又是甲等..
*我勸她大不了交接清單及財產轉移弄完直接就曠職, 身體健康重要
但她無法接受擺爛
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All Comments

By Ivy
at 2018-05-26T07:29
at 2018-05-26T07:29

By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2018-05-29T18:05
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By Steve
at 2018-05-30T04:45
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By Harry
at 2018-05-31T23:30
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By James
at 2018-06-05T09:53
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By Doris
at 2018-06-09T10:05
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By Susan
at 2018-06-09T13:51
at 2018-06-09T13:51
說到底是本人自己要釐清跟想開吧 機關沒有我們不會倒

By Enid
at 2018-06-11T14:49
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By Xanthe
at 2018-06-15T19:16
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By Hazel
at 2018-06-18T19:13
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By Aaliyah
at 2018-06-21T23:27
at 2018-06-21T23:27
天,然而工作不會因為少一個人,機關就不能運作,不要執
著只有自己才能做,好好安慰一下

By Aaliyah
at 2018-06-26T12:22
at 2018-06-26T12:22
該單位的變故就是有人自殺 也是她的好朋友 不方便再多說了

By Genevieve
at 2018-06-29T21:29
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By Yedda
at 2018-07-01T05:57
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By Gary
at 2018-07-04T19:40
at 2018-07-04T19:40
很難找工作

By Zenobia
at 2018-07-08T17:22
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By Rae
at 2018-07-10T21:58
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By Daph Bay
at 2018-07-13T02:47
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By Charlie
at 2018-07-17T10:39
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By Rae
at 2018-07-21T03:29
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By Jake
at 2018-07-21T19:18
at 2018-07-21T19:18
的曠職,也就剛好離職,之前我也有同事鬧自殺,許多同事
都勸離開不要待,後來想開後就自己曠職走了

By Zanna
at 2018-07-23T19:15
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By Andy
at 2018-07-27T05:33
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By Mary
at 2018-07-30T03:52
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By Victoria
at 2018-08-03T18:09
at 2018-08-03T18:09
上面已經寫有小孩

By Necoo
at 2018-08-04T11:57
at 2018-08-04T11:57
藥物是經心理醫師評估後 不用再吃

By Agatha
at 2018-08-08T08:54
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By Annie
at 2018-08-08T17:30
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By Isabella
at 2018-08-12T21:07
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By Oscar
at 2018-08-14T08:39
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By Linda
at 2018-08-19T04:49
at 2018-08-19T04:49
比較重要!

By Annie
at 2018-08-20T06:15
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By Tom
at 2018-08-24T09:45
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By Ivy
at 2018-08-27T09:11
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By Callum
at 2018-08-31T08:32
at 2018-08-31T08:32
反正你都說了,養你太太一輩子沒問題

By Lucy
at 2018-08-31T11:07
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By Hedy
at 2018-09-01T09:37
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By Connor
at 2018-09-04T08:22
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By Ivy
at 2018-09-06T17:39
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By Queena
at 2018-09-09T13:25
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By Jacob
at 2018-09-11T07:02
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By Robert
at 2018-09-13T00:46
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By Robert
at 2018-09-16T01:20
at 2018-09-16T01:20
醫生判斷為準)先請病假,如果不准假立刻申訴

By Tristan Cohan
at 2018-09-20T21:42
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By Sarah
at 2018-09-22T22:22
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By Puput
at 2018-09-24T02:25
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By Edward Lewis
at 2018-09-25T04:05
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By Ethan
at 2018-09-26T14:13
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By Zora
at 2018-09-29T22:31
at 2018-09-29T22:31
並放話給全部的人 誰再找 就再故意針對那個人

By Olive
at 2018-10-02T20:12
at 2018-10-02T20:12

By Madame
at 2018-10-05T21:42
at 2018-10-05T21:42
簽個屁唷

By Emily
at 2018-10-06T06:41
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By Tristan Cohan
at 2018-10-09T07:55
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By Hedwig
at 2018-10-13T13:40
at 2018-10-13T13:40
提離職,既然都做的這麼不值,為什麼還要委屈?

By Poppy
at 2018-10-17T14:49
at 2018-10-17T14:49
推薦給你老婆看,在家慢慢看。

By Ethan
at 2018-10-22T00:04
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By Kelly
at 2018-10-25T18:03
at 2018-10-25T18:03
趕快調 ,能辭就辭 ,但是大家都忍氣吞聲 因爲怕被擋商
調留下來折磨 真的能體會不想鬧大

By Jessica
at 2018-10-28T12:45
at 2018-10-28T12:45
或兩週,就不用每天看醫生啊......這種情況醫生會幫忙

By Mason
at 2018-10-30T08:28
at 2018-10-30T08:28
再來談其他的! 工作都生病了 還在顧東顧西的

By Liam
at 2018-11-01T12:28
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By Carol
at 2018-11-05T15:56
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By Tom
at 2018-11-09T08:41
at 2018-11-09T08:41
會傳染的....

By Wallis
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By Eartha
at 2018-11-14T11:46
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By Hedy
at 2018-11-18T20:19
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By Valerie
at 2018-11-20T12:44
at 2018-11-20T12:44
自己在機關做的事想的太重要 忘了真正重要的家人 才會讓
你們為她擔心煩惱 好好溝通吧

By Quintina
at 2018-11-20T22:46
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By Dorothy
at 2018-11-24T02:17
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By Suhail Hany
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By Quanna
at 2018-11-27T16:03
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By Sandy
at 2018-11-29T21:37
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By Sandy
at 2018-12-04T04:42
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By Brianna
at 2018-12-07T11:59
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By Lydia
at 2018-12-10T14:30
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By Aaliyah
at 2018-12-11T09:34
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By Susan
at 2018-12-14T09:35
at 2018-12-14T09:35
),太太情緒已不穩定,千萬別再讓她面對首長,一時的情緒激
動很容易發生憾事

By Margaret
at 2018-12-16T19:12
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By Eden
at 2018-12-18T03:45
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By Tom
at 2018-12-19T11:14
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By Dinah
at 2018-12-19T14:21
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By Hamiltion
at 2018-12-19T19:06
at 2018-12-19T19:06
談話的錄音也好像被看成幹壞事...

By Rae
at 2018-12-23T16:45
at 2018-12-23T16:45

By Jake
at 2018-12-27T22:35
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By Rachel
at 2018-12-30T12:59
at 2018-12-30T12:59
簽跟交接清單掛號,假上系統請好印下來備份直接走人

By Cara
at 2019-01-02T07:53
at 2019-01-02T07:53

By Irma
at 2019-01-04T17:40
at 2019-01-04T17:40

By Regina
at 2019-01-05T16:18
at 2019-01-05T16:18
可以換錢嗎?勸你假單照送,不批的話可以當記錄,沒休完
可以要求賠償吧(假如真的要離職)

By Kama
at 2019-01-06T07:06
at 2019-01-06T07:06

By Daph Bay
at 2019-01-08T01:13
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By Joe
at 2019-01-09T08:06
at 2019-01-09T08:06

By Audriana
at 2019-01-13T16:02
at 2019-01-13T16:02
途徑比不過該首長的手段看要不要直接向更高級機關投訴吧

By Emma
at 2019-01-15T19:03
at 2019-01-15T19:03

By Genevieve
at 2019-01-17T21:15
at 2019-01-17T21:15

By Hedwig
at 2019-01-21T04:35
at 2019-01-21T04:35

By Bennie
at 2019-01-24T21:01
at 2019-01-24T21:01

By Audriana
at 2019-01-29T15:57
at 2019-01-29T15:57

By Tom
at 2019-02-01T02:53
at 2019-02-01T02:53
不然就去上班放空 一皮天下無難事

By Zanna
at 2019-02-05T22:53
at 2019-02-05T22:53

By Caitlin
at 2019-02-07T14:26
at 2019-02-07T14:26

By Ula
at 2019-02-11T22:48
at 2019-02-11T22:48
對都是活該,而且還害到後面的人,更是造孽

By Olga
at 2019-02-13T07:44
at 2019-02-13T07:44
用客氣,休假之後領錢

By Megan
at 2019-02-16T04:37
at 2019-02-16T04:37

By Elizabeth
at 2019-02-17T01:56
at 2019-02-17T01:56
客氣什麼

By Eden
at 2019-02-19T18:00
at 2019-02-19T18:00

By Carolina Franco
at 2019-02-20T10:05
at 2019-02-20T10:05

By David
at 2019-02-22T03:13
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By Anthony
at 2019-02-22T17:21
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By Yuri
at 2019-02-23T10:58
at 2019-02-23T10:58

By Cara
at 2019-02-27T21:54
at 2019-02-27T21:54
黑了,就會變成鳥首長想不開,長官首長還敢亂來,真
的是不知天高地厚,地獄無門還闖進來,只能說昏庸無
智自找的。

By Christine
at 2019-03-01T14:05
at 2019-03-01T14:05

By Leila
at 2019-03-04T06:07
at 2019-03-04T06:07
素影響,如果是家人請去了解憂鬱症別責怪她,多幫忙她,
這並不是她的錯。當然,如果可以這首長的所作所為,希望
能受到制裁,不然苦了後續服務的員工啊。

By Puput
at 2019-03-07T19:47
at 2019-03-07T19:47
緒失控,以自己還健康的思考方式去看生病的人絕對無法了
解她沉在如何艱難的泥濘,原PO真的也辛苦了。

By Emily
at 2019-03-08T08:07
at 2019-03-08T08:07

By Elvira
at 2019-03-10T01:04
at 2019-03-10T01:04

By Selena
at 2019-03-10T18:51
at 2019-03-10T18:51

By Madame
at 2019-03-15T09:44
at 2019-03-15T09:44

By Rachel
at 2019-03-19T12:05
at 2019-03-19T12:05

By Hamiltion
at 2019-03-20T20:19
at 2019-03-20T20:19

By Irma
at 2019-03-23T21:15
at 2019-03-23T21:15

By Tom
at 2019-03-26T21:25
at 2019-03-26T21:25

By Ingrid
at 2019-03-29T15:38
at 2019-03-29T15:38

By Carol
at 2019-04-01T02:49
at 2019-04-01T02:49

By Edwina
at 2019-04-01T16:25
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By Steve
at 2019-04-06T05:33
at 2019-04-06T05:33

By Isabella
at 2019-04-10T10:24
at 2019-04-10T10:24

By Hedda
at 2019-04-12T20:07
at 2019-04-12T20:07

By Kelly
at 2019-04-16T19:50
at 2019-04-16T19:50

By Tom
at 2019-04-16T21:23
at 2019-04-16T21:23
別人閒聊的話題外,S大你能提供何種實質幫忙嗎?

By Brianna
at 2019-04-17T22:57
at 2019-04-17T22:57

By Margaret
at 2019-04-18T02:36
at 2019-04-18T02:36

By Joe
at 2019-04-18T07:41
at 2019-04-18T07:41
換地方後說不定海闊天空

By James
at 2019-04-22T03:49
at 2019-04-22T03:49
找記者 讓他被上面關切 一輩子升不了官

By Madame
at 2019-04-25T08:43
at 2019-04-25T08:43

By Enid
at 2019-04-27T22:41
at 2019-04-27T22:41

By Kristin
at 2019-05-01T00:58
at 2019-05-01T00:58

By Elizabeth
at 2019-05-01T17:26
at 2019-05-01T17:26
人叢康,又被同事欺負,後來身體整個出狀況直接離職~

By Lauren
at 2019-05-04T06:16
at 2019-05-04T06:16

By Susan
at 2019-05-09T02:16
at 2019-05-09T02:16
認真請長輩出面迴旋 一般機關首長還是會留點餘地

By Suhail Hany
at 2019-05-11T01:27
at 2019-05-11T01:27
假如真的有明確證據證明首長違法 那就告下去啊

By Rachel
at 2019-05-14T09:02
at 2019-05-14T09:02

By Kyle
at 2019-05-18T06:42
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By Candice
at 2019-05-18T19:21
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By Cara
at 2019-05-21T06:37
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By Bethany
at 2019-05-25T12:38
at 2019-05-25T12:38
沒事了,別人的嘴巴長在他身上,我們也管不著。俗話說聞謗
不怒,雖讒焰薰天,如舉火焚空,終將自息;聞謗而怒,雖巧
心力辯,如春蠶作繭,自取纏綿。既然您太太已決定離職,那
就祝福她身體早日康復。

By Cara
at 2019-05-30T10:39
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By Kristin
at 2019-06-03T18:49
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By Jacob
at 2019-06-06T22:45
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By Jake
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辭職,並以期滿之次日為生效日。但公務人員指定之離職
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