我該怎麼道歉呢 - 面試

By Kama
at 2014-08-15T00:24
at 2014-08-15T00:24
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沒想到,我也會遇到這樣的問題...
雖然是萬年問題,但還是希望版上的大大可以給點建議
因為我也不希望自己未來成為黑名單...
前情提要
-----------------------------
小弟是新北人,小孩老婆目前也都住新北,老婆的工作在台北
目前有拿到2間公司的offer (簡稱a公司, b公司)
a公司: 位於台北,離老婆公司很近,薪水 n + 年終,年終不一定
b公司: 位於中部,薪水 n+6 保14 但有分紅
簡單來說就以地區來小弟的考慮順序 肯定是 a > b
---------------------------------
面試的部分
a公司的部分是在 7/18初試 8/6 複試 8/12通知錄取及報到時間 於9/1上工
b公司於7/30面試小弟,也很快就討論到offer的問題
當時我有表示我願意到b公司上班,為了加速作業流程,單位主管在 (8/6)告知核薪進度
並在前天8/13寄出紙本的offer 上工時間是在8/25
----------------------------------
問題其實是這樣,
當我在12日知道 a公司願意錄取我後,我就有打算跟b公司告知說可能無法過去了
今天8/14跟b公司表明因為家庭的關係,可能會選擇a公司,
不過b公司的主管,跟我分析怎麼做對我比較好 以及未來發展型 (b公司 都略勝)
希望我再考慮看看...
回家跟家庭討論後,仍然是覺得a公司會比較適合目前家庭的狀況
因此,晚上再次電話單位主管表示抱歉
不過單位主管似乎不太高興,
因為他為了要讓我能快點進來,不論是在薪資、跑簽呈上都給了很大的幫忙
甚至座位、設備都已經準備好,只差我過去這樣
但是,我卻跟他說不去了,讓他蠻失望的
最後,他給了我一句話,要我不要再做這種事情...就掛電話了
-----------------------------------------------
說真的,我覺得很抱歉,但是真的考量到家庭的因素,到a公司會比較適合我
我也承認在取得a公司的錄取通知前 我的確都跟b公司單位主管說我會去
甚至我也曾經再找b公司附近的房子
只能說a公司給的通知真的太慢了
目前,我希望能跟b公司的主管好聚好散,畢竟有時候圈子真的很少
可是,好像我不過去他都是不太開心...
不知道版上的大大,是否能給晚輩一點建議呢?
--
雖然是萬年問題,但還是希望版上的大大可以給點建議
因為我也不希望自己未來成為黑名單...
前情提要
-----------------------------
小弟是新北人,小孩老婆目前也都住新北,老婆的工作在台北
目前有拿到2間公司的offer (簡稱a公司, b公司)
a公司: 位於台北,離老婆公司很近,薪水 n + 年終,年終不一定
b公司: 位於中部,薪水 n+6 保14 但有分紅
簡單來說就以地區來小弟的考慮順序 肯定是 a > b
---------------------------------
面試的部分
a公司的部分是在 7/18初試 8/6 複試 8/12通知錄取及報到時間 於9/1上工
b公司於7/30面試小弟,也很快就討論到offer的問題
當時我有表示我願意到b公司上班,為了加速作業流程,單位主管在 (8/6)告知核薪進度
並在前天8/13寄出紙本的offer 上工時間是在8/25
----------------------------------
問題其實是這樣,
當我在12日知道 a公司願意錄取我後,我就有打算跟b公司告知說可能無法過去了
今天8/14跟b公司表明因為家庭的關係,可能會選擇a公司,
不過b公司的主管,跟我分析怎麼做對我比較好 以及未來發展型 (b公司 都略勝)
希望我再考慮看看...
回家跟家庭討論後,仍然是覺得a公司會比較適合目前家庭的狀況
因此,晚上再次電話單位主管表示抱歉
不過單位主管似乎不太高興,
因為他為了要讓我能快點進來,不論是在薪資、跑簽呈上都給了很大的幫忙
甚至座位、設備都已經準備好,只差我過去這樣
但是,我卻跟他說不去了,讓他蠻失望的
最後,他給了我一句話,要我不要再做這種事情...就掛電話了
-----------------------------------------------
說真的,我覺得很抱歉,但是真的考量到家庭的因素,到a公司會比較適合我
我也承認在取得a公司的錄取通知前 我的確都跟b公司單位主管說我會去
甚至我也曾經再找b公司附近的房子
只能說a公司給的通知真的太慢了
目前,我希望能跟b公司的主管好聚好散,畢竟有時候圈子真的很少
可是,好像我不過去他都是不太開心...
不知道版上的大大,是否能給晚輩一點建議呢?
--
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