遇到關係妄想個案? - 社工
By Rae
at 2010-07-28T13:16
at 2010-07-28T13:16
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如題,我遇到了一個對於專業關係絲毫無法接受的案主。
從接案開始,不知何故他就非常喜歡我,也常會打電話來辦公室。
一開始,只是問我在做些什麼,後來越來越誇張,有時到家訪視還會動手動腳,雖然我已經表明不舒服,仍然嘻嘻哈哈的。
後來,更自居是我男友或是先生,即使我稱我已婚,他還是如故,一直以來都很不喜歡這樣類型的個案,然而
在前天的電話中,我終於忍不住了:
那天,他打了電話過來,一如往常的,又跟我玩起「猜猜我是誰?」的把戲,當我回答後,他居然說他是X老公
聽到當下我真的氣炸了,因為有種被侵犯的感覺,然後當時我就告訴他我不喜歡這樣,也因為他這樣,我這個月只會電話訪視他,不會去看他了===>我這個舉動或許是真的滿不好的,但我已經不知道應該怎麼跟他說
後來,今天他又打了電話過來,毫無悔意,還說他僅是說溜嘴,很寂寞,又辯解說他是問我先生要不要一起去他家,
這次,我試圖告訴他這樣想法是不應該的,我們僅是專業上的關係,但他仍然感到我應該要滿足他情感上的需求。
面對他每次的電話,我都只能無奈以對,不知道各位對於此類個案有沒有什麼應對方式。
P.S.個案於今年初犯下性侵案件,尚未判刑,對於這件事情他也絲毫感到無所謂,這樣的態度讓我很害怕,且每次問我為什麼不去他家的時候,都會一再提說:我又不會吃掉妳,讓我感覺很噁心
另外,我也跟他哥哥聯繫過,但哥哥好像覺得這樣並不怎樣,甚至對於我知道他犯案的事情感到有點腦羞。
請各位幫忙提供點意見吧!因為這個案似乎須要服務到年底。(哭)
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從接案開始,不知何故他就非常喜歡我,也常會打電話來辦公室。
一開始,只是問我在做些什麼,後來越來越誇張,有時到家訪視還會動手動腳,雖然我已經表明不舒服,仍然嘻嘻哈哈的。
後來,更自居是我男友或是先生,即使我稱我已婚,他還是如故,一直以來都很不喜歡這樣類型的個案,然而
在前天的電話中,我終於忍不住了:
那天,他打了電話過來,一如往常的,又跟我玩起「猜猜我是誰?」的把戲,當我回答後,他居然說他是X老公
聽到當下我真的氣炸了,因為有種被侵犯的感覺,然後當時我就告訴他我不喜歡這樣,也因為他這樣,我這個月只會電話訪視他,不會去看他了===>我這個舉動或許是真的滿不好的,但我已經不知道應該怎麼跟他說
後來,今天他又打了電話過來,毫無悔意,還說他僅是說溜嘴,很寂寞,又辯解說他是問我先生要不要一起去他家,
這次,我試圖告訴他這樣想法是不應該的,我們僅是專業上的關係,但他仍然感到我應該要滿足他情感上的需求。
面對他每次的電話,我都只能無奈以對,不知道各位對於此類個案有沒有什麼應對方式。
P.S.個案於今年初犯下性侵案件,尚未判刑,對於這件事情他也絲毫感到無所謂,這樣的態度讓我很害怕,且每次問我為什麼不去他家的時候,都會一再提說:我又不會吃掉妳,讓我感覺很噁心
另外,我也跟他哥哥聯繫過,但哥哥好像覺得這樣並不怎樣,甚至對於我知道他犯案的事情感到有點腦羞。
請各位幫忙提供點意見吧!因為這個案似乎須要服務到年底。(哭)
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