醫療業去美國生涯抉擇 - 面試

By Rebecca
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我在台灣當住院醫師 再兩年考專科執照
老婆剛拿到美國軟體工程師缺(20萬)
今年會幫她辦綠卡 我也可以一起辦
原先的討論是她為了我回台灣工作
而後來她留在美國的念頭越來越強烈
因此目前的討論是
我在兩年後考到專科執照後去美國陪她
我個人對美國是沒有特別的喜好
但是對治安跟種族歧視有疑慮
目前英文聽+說很爛 是需要積極加強的部分
她則是因為比較喜歡美國的環境+收入較高+希望給小孩美式教育
目前有一下幾個方案
1.拼美國醫師國考USMLE
有好幾關 難度很高
考完之後還要match住院醫師
很多人都倒在這一關
全職拼2-3年也不一定match得上
勉強match上很高機率也跟她不同州
這樣還要繼續遠距離好幾年其實我不太樂意
而且老實說我不想再當一次住院醫師
說有多痛苦就有多痛苦
另外美國住院醫師薪水很低
大概又要過好幾年苦日子也存不了什麼錢
升主治可能都40歲了才拿到跟她new grad一樣的薪水
因為在美國是選剩的科 薪水不會比我在台灣高多少
2.準備申請美國CS碩
我完全沒有學過也沒有相關背景
有少數學長姐走這條路都是大學就開始接觸了
這條路我也不是很樂意
因為準備+念碩士至少3年
期間沒有收入就算了 還要付高昂學費
而且很高機率也跟她不同城市要繼續遠距離
3.自學CS+刷題
然後直接去面試(有綠卡的情況下
這點我是看“工程師作家的轉行人生”得知的
是我目前最想嘗試的路
主要原因是可以一起生活不用遠距離
但擔心沒有基礎+美國學歷的情況下
最後根本面試不上
4.去當家庭主夫
這應該是以上三條路失敗才會選擇的路
以往是我負擔大部分的開銷
擔心之後她變成經濟主力
心裡會不平衡不樂意
原本期待升主治之後可以過得相對舒服
但如果給她養就會非常刻苦的過日子
不太敢花她錢
5.留台灣工作+說服她回台灣工作
這條路對我來說應該是最舒適的
我將來的薪水應該跟她在美國稅後相差不多
但同樣外商她的薪水會變1/3
在收入+她比較喜歡美國環境的情況下
也很難叫她犧牲現有工作回來陪我
以往去美國當醫師或轉職的學長姐多半是一畢業就出去
沒有在台灣當住院醫師
目前要這樣放棄10多年的學習+訓練
心裡真的很煎熬
撇開5不談 目前偏好是3>1>2>4
請問各位前輩有什麼建議
補充:小弟我對醫學沒什麼熱忱
能餬口即可
因此醫學研究暫不考慮
倒是對數理比較有興趣 但統計例外
因此才有往CS的想法
至於藥廠興趣也不大 除非薪水很高
能的話還是希望能找到跟她薪資差不多的工作@@
另外手機編輯文章時好像出了點問題
如有不小心刪掉誰的推文真的抱歉!
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老婆剛拿到美國軟體工程師缺(20萬)
今年會幫她辦綠卡 我也可以一起辦
原先的討論是她為了我回台灣工作
而後來她留在美國的念頭越來越強烈
因此目前的討論是
我在兩年後考到專科執照後去美國陪她
我個人對美國是沒有特別的喜好
但是對治安跟種族歧視有疑慮
目前英文聽+說很爛 是需要積極加強的部分
她則是因為比較喜歡美國的環境+收入較高+希望給小孩美式教育
目前有一下幾個方案
1.拼美國醫師國考USMLE
有好幾關 難度很高
考完之後還要match住院醫師
很多人都倒在這一關
全職拼2-3年也不一定match得上
勉強match上很高機率也跟她不同州
這樣還要繼續遠距離好幾年其實我不太樂意
而且老實說我不想再當一次住院醫師
說有多痛苦就有多痛苦
另外美國住院醫師薪水很低
大概又要過好幾年苦日子也存不了什麼錢
升主治可能都40歲了才拿到跟她new grad一樣的薪水
因為在美國是選剩的科 薪水不會比我在台灣高多少
2.準備申請美國CS碩
我完全沒有學過也沒有相關背景
有少數學長姐走這條路都是大學就開始接觸了
這條路我也不是很樂意
因為準備+念碩士至少3年
期間沒有收入就算了 還要付高昂學費
而且很高機率也跟她不同城市要繼續遠距離
3.自學CS+刷題
然後直接去面試(有綠卡的情況下
這點我是看“工程師作家的轉行人生”得知的
是我目前最想嘗試的路
主要原因是可以一起生活不用遠距離
但擔心沒有基礎+美國學歷的情況下
最後根本面試不上
4.去當家庭主夫
這應該是以上三條路失敗才會選擇的路
以往是我負擔大部分的開銷
擔心之後她變成經濟主力
心裡會不平衡不樂意
原本期待升主治之後可以過得相對舒服
但如果給她養就會非常刻苦的過日子
不太敢花她錢
5.留台灣工作+說服她回台灣工作
這條路對我來說應該是最舒適的
我將來的薪水應該跟她在美國稅後相差不多
但同樣外商她的薪水會變1/3
在收入+她比較喜歡美國環境的情況下
也很難叫她犧牲現有工作回來陪我
以往去美國當醫師或轉職的學長姐多半是一畢業就出去
沒有在台灣當住院醫師
目前要這樣放棄10多年的學習+訓練
心裡真的很煎熬
撇開5不談 目前偏好是3>1>2>4
請問各位前輩有什麼建議
補充:小弟我對醫學沒什麼熱忱
能餬口即可
因此醫學研究暫不考慮
倒是對數理比較有興趣 但統計例外
因此才有往CS的想法
至於藥廠興趣也不大 除非薪水很高
能的話還是希望能找到跟她薪資差不多的工作@@
另外手機編輯文章時好像出了點問題
如有不小心刪掉誰的推文真的抱歉!
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